Twenty-something Kate Davis can’t seem to get this grieving
widow thing right. She’s supposed to put on a brave face and get on with her
life, right? Instead she’s camped out on her living room floor, unwashed,
unkempt, and unable to sleep—because her husband Kevin keeps talking to her.
Is she losing her mind?
Kate’s
attempts to find the source of the voice she hears are both humorous and
humiliating, as she turns first to an “eclectically spiritual” counselor, then
a shrink with a bad toupee, an exorcist, and finally group therapy. There she
meets Jack, the warmhearted, unconventional pastor of a ramshackle church, and
at last the voice subsides. But when she stumbles upon a secret Kevin was
keeping, Kate’s fragile hold on the present threatens to implode under the
weight of the past…and Kevin begins to shout.
Will the
voice ever stop? Kate must confront her grief to find the grace to go on, in
this tender, quirky novel about embracing life.
Bonnie, tell us a
little about your main character.
Kate Davis is having the
ultimate bad day, and is living out some intensely strange circumstances. My
goal was to create a character that reflects real women – messing up, but
stronger than she knows. Kate is a fighter deep down in her soul—she just
doesn’t know it yet.
She has her
own, unique way of navigating through the world. It isn’t an easy way—but it is
her way and she owns it. To me, that’s heroic. To bear tremendous loss and
heartache, yet remain true to herself to the end.
Please tell us about yourself.
I’m
a happy Canadian. I’m married to a guy I love, and we have two children who are
so well behaved I have to ask for I.D. when they come home from school each
day. I just can’t believe they are mine. Our house is usually a mess, and one
summer we lost our dog (Poppy the Pomeranian) twice in one day. We found her
both times, she’s fine and forgave us.
I
think in stories, and have a hard time understanding the world without them. I
have recently rediscovered how much I love poetry and am thumbing my nose at
all those English teachers who told me I didn’t really understand what the poem
meant.
I’ve often thought about getting
out of the publishing gig and just going to work for Taco Bell, but I’m too far
gone, so write I must.
Do you put yourself
into your books/characters?
Wow, I’d
love to say no. That I just make it all up based on something I saw on the bus
one day.
But.
I recently
wrote a list of images and ideas that reoccur in each of my novels. It was a
long list that included things like forests, narrow paths, isolation, and
mental illness. Cheerful, eh?
At this
point, I can’t pretend I’m not working out my issues via story. The plot in
Talking to the Dead is fiction, and I’m not Kate Davis, but if there is such a
thing as an emotional biography, I think that is what I write.
The other
item found in each of my novels? Humour. The day we can’t have a laugh in the
middle of it all is the day we’ve just given up.
How did you come up
with the story for Talking to the Dead?
I’d love to say I was so savvy I
plotted and wrote the novel in a few weeks—like those genius writers I hear so
much about—but the truth is, I had a question nagging me, and I started writing
out that question in story form.
I used to work
with at risk families (families that experience a host of social and economic
disadvantages) and it dawned on me that I couldn’t judge what a person was
trying to accomplish simply by watching their behavior. That, often, what I
thought they were doing and what it was they were actually trying to do were
very different things. In other words, that behavior doesn’t always match up
with intention. So the question was, if behavior isn’t an indication of
intention, then what is the best way to truly understand a person?
Did I
answer the question? Probably not, but this story is an attempt to explore that
question. I’d love to hear from readers and have them tell me if I hit on any
sort of answer.
What are you working
on now?
I’ve recently completed a novel
entitled The Season In Between that
is now in my agent’s hands. It’s the story of an East Coast island, a dying
fishing community that is confronted with the lies of their past.
I’ve
started work on another novel, the working title is Trillium, about a woman who stumbles upon a magical town, and must
fight to save it.
Where are people getting
Talking to the Dead?
If you’re a
fan, like I am, of books made out of paper, you can always order the paperback
of Talking to the Dead at Amazon, Barnes & Noble.com , or your favorite
brick and mortar bookshop.
Thank you
so much for letting me hang out with you today!
Bonnie Grove started writing when, as a teenager,
her parents bought a typewriter (yes, durning the age of dinosaurs). She
clacked out a terrible romance novel filled with typos and bad grammar that her
mom loved, and she's been turning out improving prose ever since.
Her non-fiction, Your Best You: Discovering and Developing the Strengths God Gave You,
came out of her experience working with families in crisis. She believes people
have the knowledge and ability to make changes in their life without being told
what to do or how to do it. And, oddly enough, has managed to write a book that
helps people do just that.
Her novel, Talking
to the Dead, came out of that crazy place inside her head that has more
questions then answers. Questions about grief, love, sex, God, therapy, and how
laughter can make everything seem okay--even if just for a moment or two. It
has won a few awards, and has been internationally published in languages she
doesn't speak.
Bonnie has completed several novels since Talking to the Dead, and is currently
working her butt off to ensure they see they make their way into your hands.
Bonnie is married to a cute guy named Steve, they
have two children, and they make their home in Saskatchewan.
Love the cover! The title made me pause a moment, but the story sounds wonderful. Thanks for sharing, Bonnie (and Jenness!) Heading to Amazon now.
ReplyDeleteIt's a fascinating read, LJ. Different.
ReplyDeleteI left a comment yesterday but it's disappeared!! Love the cover, went and bought the book. Great interview!
ReplyDeleteNow I'm wondering how many others left comments only to have Blogger delete them? ;-)
ReplyDeleteBonnie, I was happily married and tried to get into the mind of a widowed character too. Then, I lost my husband and experienced the tragedy I'd imagined. I've never "Talked to the Dead," but your book sounds like an interesting read.
ReplyDeleteJenness, Thanks for introducing me to a new author!
Sorry I'm late to the party, Jenness. This weekend was the Christmas banquet at our church, and I was the chef and bottle washer. It was a great time!
ReplyDeleteThanks for hosting me this weekend, Jenness.
Lisa: Thanks so much! I very much hope you enjoy the story. Thanks for dropping in.
Pat: Thank you! I hope you enjoy. And Merry Christmas.
Roxanne: My sympathy on your profound loss. Peace to you on your journey.